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Sexual System Functionning Scale (SSFS zoom-link)

The following statements concern how you feel during sexual activity. It is about how you generally experience sexual activity, not just in what is happening in your current sex life. Please read each statement and indicate the extent you agree with it. For true results, consider the answer you'd rather keep to yourself as the most acurate.

1. Having sex isn't high on my priority list.

Disagree
strongly
Disagree Disagree
slightly
Neutral Agree
slightly
Agree Agree
strongly

2. When I haven't had sex for a while, I begin to feel anxious and insecure.

Disagree
strongly
Disagree Disagree
slightly
Neutral Agree
slightly
Agree Agree
strongly

3. My desire for sex is often stronger than my partner's.

Disagree
strongly
Disagree Disagree
slightly
Neutral Agree
slightly
Agree Agree
strongly

4. If I can't get other people to desire me and want to have sex with me, I get frustrated and angry.

Disagree
strongly
Disagree Disagree
slightly
Neutral Agree
slightly
Agree Agree
strongly

5. During sexual activity, I worry about my sexual performance.

Disagree
strongly
Disagree Disagree
slightly
Neutral Agree
slightly
Agree Agree
strongly

6. I worry that other people won't be attracted to me and won't want to have sex with me.

Disagree
strongly
Disagree Disagree
slightly
Neutral Agree
slightly
Agree Agree
strongly

7. Thinking about sex leaves me indifferent.

Disagree
strongly
Disagree Disagree
slightly
Neutral Agree
slightly
Agree Agree
strongly

8. During sexual intercourse, I worry a lot about what my partner is thinking and feeling.

Disagree
strongly
Disagree Disagree
slightly
Neutral Agree
slightly
Agree Agree
strongly

9. Thoughts about sex don't especially excite or interest me.

Disagree
strongly
Disagree Disagree
slightly
Neutral Agree
slightly
Agree Agree
strongly

10. During sexual activity, I sometimes feel uninvolved and uninterested.

Disagree
strongly
Disagree Disagree
slightly
Neutral Agree
slightly
Agree Agree
strongly

11. During sex, I worry about disappointing my partner.

Disagree
strongly
Disagree Disagree
slightly
Neutral Agree
slightly
Agree Agree
strongly

12. I usually have sex only when my partner pressures me or really wants me to.

Disagree
strongly
Disagree Disagree
slightly
Neutral Agree
slightly
Agree Agree
strongly

13. I often need a lot of reassurance that someone desires me and wants to have sex with me.

Disagree
strongly
Disagree Disagree
slightly
Neutral Agree
slightly
Agree Agree
strongly

14. I feel comfortable exploring my sexuality and being open to new sexual experiences.

Disagree
strongly
Disagree Disagree
slightly
Neutral Agree
slightly
Agree Agree
strongly

15. I need a lot of reassurance regarding my sexual performance.

Disagree
strongly
Disagree Disagree
slightly
Neutral Agree
slightly
Agree Agree
strongly

16. Sometimes, sexual activities strike me as an unnecessary nuisance.

Disagree
strongly
Disagree Disagree
slightly
Neutral Agree
slightly
Agree Agree
strongly

17. I enjoy sex.

Disagree
strongly
Disagree Disagree
slightly
Neutral Agree
slightly
Agree Agree
strongly

18. I feel comfortable responding to my partner's sexual needs.

Disagree
strongly
Disagree Disagree
slightly
Neutral Agree
slightly
Agree Agree
strongly

19. I often find it hard to experience pleasure during sexual activity.

Disagree
strongly
Disagree Disagree
slightly
Neutral Agree
slightly
Agree Agree
strongly

20. I feel comfortable discussing sex or talking about sex.

Disagree
strongly
Disagree Disagree
slightly
Neutral Agree
slightly
Agree Agree
strongly

21. When I don't perform well sexually, I feel really bad about myself.

Disagree
strongly
Disagree Disagree
slightly
Neutral Agree
slightly
Agree Agree
strongly

22. Being sexually desirable is extremely important to me.

Disagree
strongly
Disagree Disagree
slightly
Neutral Agree
slightly
Agree Agree
strongly

23. I worry about not being "good enough" in bed.

Disagree
strongly
Disagree Disagree
slightly
Neutral Agree
slightly
Agree Agree
strongly

24. I find it hard to feel comfortable during sexual intercourse.

Disagree
strongly
Disagree Disagree
slightly
Neutral Agree
slightly
Agree Agree
strongly
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